What if my trans child changes their mind?

What if my trans child changes their mind?

Transgender children will always be trans, they don’t change their mind, and transition regret rates are very low. Some people do regret transitioning, but the reason is not because they are no longer trans. They either were not trans in the first place, or life is just too unaccepting of them as a trans person.

If your child is trans then believe them, support them, and help them adjust.


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